The first day of school is a big milestone—whether it’s your child’s very first day ever, or just the first day of a brand-new grade. Read more about how to support children and yourself on our Explore Literacy/Explora Literacia Familiar page.
The first day of school is a big milestone—whether it’s your child’s very first day ever, or just the first day of a brand-new grade. Along with new backpacks, lunchboxes, and routines, children often carry something else: big emotions. Excitement, nervousness, curiosity, fear, and even sadness can swirl together in ways that are tough for young ones to explain.
As families, we can support our children through this transition by helping them understand their feelings, building excitement around learning, and—of course—turning to the power of books to guide those important conversations.
Why the First Day Feels So Big
For young children, starting school often means separating from home and caregivers for the first time. For older children, it might mean a new teacher, classmates, or a bigger workload. It’s perfectly natural for kids to feel unsure about these changes.
Understanding their emotions—and naming them—is the first step toward helping them manage those feelings. Picture books, read-aloud, and family discussions are fantastic tools for doing just that.
Helping Preschool and Kindergarten-Age Children
At this age, children may not have the words to explain how they feel. Visual stories and gentle reassurances go a long way. Establish routines before school starts—like reading a story together every night or practicing the morning routine—to help things feel more predictable.
Books to Read Together:
The Kissing Hand by Audrey Penn
This classic tells the story of a little raccoon nervous about going to school. His mother shares a sweet secret for feeling her love all day long.
Llama Llama Misses Mama by Anna Dewdney
Llama’s first day of preschool is full of worry and longing for Mama. A relatable, rhyming story that helps normalize separation anxiety.
First Day Jitters by Julie Danneberg
A funny twist: the person with the jitters is the teacher! It’s a reassuring reminder that everyone feels nervous sometimes.
Supporting Elementary-Age Children
As children grow, they may be more aware of social dynamics or academic expectations. Encourage them to share their worries—whether it’s about making friends, a tricky subject, or even getting lost in the building.
Talk through potential situations and help them think through solutions. Empowering them with confidence and perspective makes a big difference.
Books for School-Age Readers:
Wemberly Worried by Kevin Henkes
Wemberly is a little mouse who worries—a lot. A comforting book that helps children know they’re not alone in their anxious feelings.
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All Are Welcome by Alexandra Penfold
A colorful, inclusive book celebrating the diverse, supportive communities that schools can be.
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The Day You Begin by Jacqueline Woodson
For kids feeling different or unsure, this beautifully written book is a celebration of finding your place.
Family Tips for Soothing First Day:
Practice together: Visit the school, meet the teacher if possible, and do a trial run of the morning routine.
Create a goodbye ritual: A special phrase, hug, or handshake can help ease transitions.
Make time to listen: After school, keep things open-ended: “What made you smile today?” or “Was anything tricky?”
Be patient: The adjustment period can take days or weeks. Expect ups and downs—and celebrate small victories.
The first day of school is the start of so many new adventures. While big emotions are a natural part of that transition, they’re also an opportunity for connection, empathy, and growth. With stories in hand and love in our hearts, we can help children feel brave, supported, and ready to take their first steps into a brand-new year.
Como familias, podemos acompañar a nuestros hijos en esta transición ayudándolos a reconocer lo que sienten, despertando el entusiasmo por aprender y, por supuesto, usando el poder de los libros para guiar esas conversaciones tan importantes.
Para los niños pequeños, comenzar la escuela muchas veces significa separarse por primera vez de casa y de sus cuidadores. Para los niños más grandes, puede significar tener un maestro nuevo, hacer amigos nuevos o enfrentarse a más tareas escolares. Es totalmente normal que sientan dudas o nervios ante estos cambios.
Ayudarlos a entender lo que sienten—y ponerle nombre a esas emociones—es el primer paso para que puedan manejarlas. Los libros ilustrados, las lecturas en voz alta y las charlas en familia son herramientas muy útiles para eso.
Apoyando a niños en edad preescolar y kindergarten
A esta edad, muchos niños aún no tienen las palabras para decir cómo se sienten. Las historias con imágenes y las palabras suaves de tranquilidad ayudan mucho. Antes de que comience la escuela, podemos establecer rutinas—como leer juntos cada noche o practicar la rutina de la mañana—para que el cambio sea más fácil.
Libros para leer en familia:
La mano que besa (The Kissing Hand) de Audrey Penn
Este libro clásico cuenta la historia de un pequeño mapache que se siente nervioso por ir a la escuela. Su mamá le comparte un tierno secreto para sentir su amor durante todo el dĂa.
Llama Llama Misses Mama de Anna Dewdney
El primer dĂa de preescolar de Llama está lleno de preocupaciĂłn y de extrañar a su mamá. Una historia rimada y tierna que ayuda a normalizar la ansiedad por separaciĂłn.
First Day Jitters de Julie Danneberg
Un giro divertido: ¡quien tiene nervios no es un estudiante, sino la maestra! Un recordatorio simpático de que todos sentimos nervios alguna vez.
Apoyando a niños en edad escolar (primaria)
Cuando los niños crecen, suelen darse más cuenta de las relaciones sociales y de lo que se espera de ellos en la escuela. AnĂmalos a compartir sus preocupaciones—ya sea por hacer amigos, por alguna materia difĂcil o por temor a perderse en la escuela.
Hablen sobre lo que podrĂa pasar y piensen juntos en soluciones. Ayudarlos a sentirse seguros y capaces marca una gran diferencia.
Libros para lectores en edad escolar:
Wemberly Worried de Kevin Henkes
Wemberly es una pequeña ratoncita que se preocupa… mucho. Un libro que consuela y que ayuda a los niños a entender que no están solos en sus emociones.
All Are Welcome de Alexandra Penfold
Un libro colorido e inclusivo que celebra comunidades escolares diversas y llenas de apoyo.
The Day You Begin de Jacqueline Woodson
Para los niños que se sienten diferentes o inseguros, esta historia bellamente escrita celebra encontrar nuestro lugar en el mundo. Consejos familiares para calmar los nervios del primer dĂa
Lleva tu hora de cuentos a un parque local, el jardĂn o el patio. Prepara una manta, una cesta con libros y bocadillos de frutas frescas. Deja que tu hijo elija los libros y las frutas: eso les da autonomĂa y entusiasmo.
Este tipo de diario combina lectura, escritura y reflexión—todas habilidades clave para el desarrollo de la alfabetización temprana.
¡Celebremos Juntos! Fiesta de lectura y frutas de verano
Al final del verano, celebren sus aventuras lectoras organizando una pequeña “Fiesta de Frutas y Cuentos”. Invita a amigos o familiares a compartir sus libros y frutas favoritos del verano. Los niños pueden contar sus cuentos favoritos, cantar canciones o representar escenas de libros.
No tiene que ser algo grande—solo una manera divertida de cerrar una temporada llena de aprendizaje y risas.
¡Celebremos la lectura de verano del 2025!
¡Únete al Programa de Lectura de Verano de la Biblioteca del Condado de Yolo!
La lectura de verano es mucho más que terminar una lista de libros: se trata de crear experiencias alegres y reales que den vida a las historias. Cuando las familias leen juntas, disfrutan frutas de temporada y exploran la naturaleza, los niños desarrollan bases sólidas de alfabetización de formas significativas y memorables.
El Programa de Lectura de Verano de la Biblioteca del Condado de Yolo promueve la alfabetización para personas de todas las edades, ofreciendo incentivos para desarrollar y mantener el hábito de la lectura durante toda la vida.
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The summer season is full of sunshine, sweet fruits, and special moments with your children. It’s the perfect time to bring books to life through nature and food! Young children thrive when learning is hands-on and connected to the world around them. A simple and joyful way to build early literacy is to combine summer reading with outdoor play and the natural delight of seasonal fruits
Summer fruits like strawberries, peaches, blueberries, and watermelon are not only healthy and good treats, they’re also full of sensory experiences that spark language learning.
Here’s how families can celebrate summer reading through nature and food while building language, vocabulary, and family memories.
Let’s explore: Bring fruit into your reading time!
“How would you describe its color or texture?”
These conversations build descriptive language and vocabulary in a fun, natural way.
Let’s Adventure: Outdoor Story Picnics
Take your story time to a local park, backyard, or garden. Pack a blanket, a basket of books, and some fresh fruit snacks. Let your child help choose the books and snacks, it gives them experience and excitement. Create themed picnics!
Encourage your child to draw pictures or write about the fruits they try or outdoor adventures they go on after reading. You can even glue in fruit stickers, wrappers, or leaves to make it interactive.
This type of journaling combines reading, writing, and reflecting—all essential parts of early literacy.
Let’s Celebrate Together: Summer Reading Fruit Party
At the end of the summer, celebrate your reading adventures by hosting a small “Fruit & Story Celebration.” Invite friends or family to share their favorite summer books and fruits. Let kids tell their favorite stories, sing songs, or act out parts of books.
It doesn’t have to be big—just a fun way to wrap up a season full of learning and laughter!
Let’s celebrate Summer Reading 2025. Join the Yolo County Library Summer Reading Program!
Summer reading is more than finishing a book list; it’s about creating joyful, real-world experiences that bring stories to life. When families read together, enjoy seasonal fruits, and explore the outdoors, children build strong literacy foundations in meaningful and memorable ways.
The Summer Reading Program at Yolo County Library helps promote literacy for people of all ages by providing incentives to grow and sustain a lifelong reading habit. Join us for our Summer Reading Program, June 1 – August 15.
Your library’s free all-ages Summer Reading Program runs from June 1 – August 15.  Free, weekly special events will take place at library branches throughout the program. All community members are encouraged to sign up to read, log their reading, and complete fun activities to earn prizes.
This year’s theme, Color Our World, celebrates creativity, curiosity, and diversity through books, activities, and community engagement.
Summer reading programs are designed to inspire a love of reading, even among reluctant readers. Research shows that participation helps children and teens retain and improve their literacy skills during the summer months. Adults also benefit by rediscovering the joys of reading and modeling positive reading habits for children.
Las comidas familiares ofrecen una oportunidad increĂble para conectar, compartir y, lo más importante, fomentar valiosas habilidades de alfabetizaciĂłn en los niños. La mesa del comedor no es solo para comer, es un lugar donde la conversaciĂłn, el aprendizaje y la uniĂłn familiar pueden prosperar.
Aquà te mostramos cómo las horas de comida pueden ser más que solo comida: pueden ser una herramienta poderosa para apoyar el desarrollo de la literature en tus hijos.
Las Conversaciones Fomentan el Aprendizaje:
Hacer preguntas abiertas sobre los eventos del dĂa o hablar sobre libros favoritos puede ayudar a los niños a expandir su vocabulario, practicar la narraciĂłn de historias y desarrollar habilidades de comunicaciĂłn.
La hora de la comida ofrece una oportunidad para compartir historias, reĂr juntos y fomentar un sentido de pertenencia. Estos momentos de conexiĂłn contribuyen a un ambiente emocional positivo que puede hacer que los niños se entusiasmen más por participar en la lectura, la escritura y el aprendizaje.
Kit de Actividades Destacado:Â
¡Descubre nuestro Kit de Hora de Cuentos: Healthy Food Habits!Incluye libros adicionales, actividades prácticas y recursos divertidos diseñados para enseñar a los niños sobre elecciones alimenticias saludables.
The kitchen table isn’t just for eating, it’s a place where conversation, learning, and family bonding can thrive. Family mealtimes offer an incredible opportunity to connect, share, and foster valuable literacy skills in children.
Here are three ways to make family meals into a powerful tool supporting your children’s literacy development and school readiness:
Conversations Spark Learning:
Ask open-ended questions about the day’s events or discuss favorite books and stories. This expands your children’s vocabulary, gives them practice in telling stories, and develops communication skills.
For example, instead of asking, “How was school today?” try asking, “What was the most interesting thing you learned today?” These questions encourage your child to think critically, express themselves clearly, and engage in deeper conversations.
Literacy through Cooking and Recipes:
Mealtime provides a natural setting for learning through cooking. Reading recipes is a fantastic way to combine literacy and life skills. Children can learn to read instructions, follow steps, and remember sequences. Cooking also introduces them to new vocabulary related to ingredients (vocabulary), measurements (math), and cooking methods (science).
Encourage your child to help plan and prepare meals. Let them read the recipe, measure the ingredients, and even write a shopping list. By involving them in meal prep, you are teaching them practical literacy skills they can apply in everyday situations.
Building Family Bonds:
Mealtime provides an opportunity to share stories, laugh together, and encourage a sense of belonging. These moments of connection contribute to a positive emotional environment that can make children more eager to engage in reading, writing, and learning.
Spotlight:
Check out our Storytime Kit: Healthy Food Habits! This kit includes books in Spanish and English, hands-on activities, and fun learning resources designed to teach children about healthy food choices.
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